How To Make Your Wife Happy: A Married Woman’s Secret Wish List For A Happy Married Life

Introduction:

This summary is to separate the facts from the common assumptions and misconceptions of husbands around the world.

Common belief n. # 1: A ring on a woman’s finger makes her safe forever.

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Contrary to popular belief, marriage does not make a woman secure enough not to demand her husband’s attention. We are a creature of habit and women, by nature, seek the attention of men and compete with each other for this kind of attention. It is in our DNA. We see in movies and hear in conversations men say “My girlfriend is always jealous and demands too much attention, I don’t want her to be jealous, so I’m going to marry her, I propose next week.” . In this example, we see that a man in a serious relationship thinks about marrying his girlfriend, a solution to his insecurity problems. Proposing to your girlfriend can make her feel euphoric and confident for a certain period of time, but it doesn’t eliminate her true emotions, which are sure to surface during the marriage, if they are not resolved or addressed properly.

Common belief n. 2: Flowers are for women, married women want babies.

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A woman, even if she is happily married, may still have reservations to have children. Most men think that when a woman says yes and agrees to marry, she would immediately be ready to have children and want to conceive soon. She can show her willingness to have a family, however, men have yet to confirm whether their wives are really ready for pregnancy and childbirth; physically, emotionally and psychologically.

Common belief n. 3: When the husband provides, the wife steps aside.

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The financial security of women, while very important, is not all that a woman needs. A married woman may be more confident and would trust her husband more if he is a productive member of society, is successful in his field, and earns enough to give his family a comfortable life, but her husband’s financial success is not the sum. of all your happiness and satisfaction in life. A husband’s wealth does not ensure his wife’s constant happiness, faithfulness, and full cooperation, nor does it mean that she is always willing to give up her career or a lifelong dream. This type of decision almost always has to come from the woman’s own will, she decides with her mind and her heart, and women think a lot.

By being married myself, I will confess my secret wishes and longings, for my perceived happy, safe and satisfying married life.

A Wife’s Secret Wish List: Part 1 – Your Wife’s Emotions

1. Compliments – Women just can’t get enough of hearing flattering comments. Congratulate her every day, with something as simple as “You look beautiful” or “You are an excellent cook” and put a smile on her face that does not fade easily.

2. Flowers – Women, of all ages and classes, like beautiful things; and flowers, not only beautiful, but also make us feel special and valued.

3. A warm greeting in the morning: Wives are literally “dumb” for a warm greeting, hug, or kiss when we wake up and get ready for the day. If you had a little argument the night before, nothing like “good morning darling, I love you” can make her forget and feel better. You want to make her day and try to do it every day.

4. Let her win – Speaking of arguments, you may want to consider letting her win in most discussions. By giving in and staying quiet, women tend to resist agreeing with their “man” in an argument, if they feel they can win it. talking endlessly. So save yourself and your wife the agony, and let her win. There are wives who quickly realize mistakes, but first you show them that you love them and are willing to listen to them so that they win the argument.

5. Attention – I can’t stress enough how important this is to a woman. Pay enough attention to it, even before it’s obvious you’re looking for it. You are the best person to give her the kind of care she needs, so she feels safe, appropriate, and necessary. Listen to it, look at it and pay attention.

6. Her time – Aside from attention, whenever you are together, you may want to give her your time and show her how eager you are to spend hours with her, regardless of the occasion and your schedule. Spend time with your wife, keep in mind that you are investing in your marriage.

7. Commitment – You don’t just commit to marrying her, you commit to her background, her priorities, her needs, and her dreams. When women say yes, we do so wholeheartedly and expect the same commitment from our husbands.

8. Romance – Then your single days are over, you marry and sleep with the same woman, hopefully, for the rest of your life. If you think this is scary to men, wait until you look into a woman’s mind, you will find that she too is afraid of losing the intensity and intimacy of their relationship, once married. Reassure her by keeping romance in your married life.

9. Conversations – It wakes you up at dawn, excited and / or anxious, do not make the mistake of ignoring it and going back to sleep. During these times, no matter how tired or sleepy you are, you need to show her that you are okay with speaking and that you are actually willing to listen. U.S. wives remember these moments and our husbands’ reactions persist. You can’t run out of topics to talk about, and if your wife is the shy and quiet type, start the conversation and reward yourself and your wife with this beautiful element in marriage.

10. Peace of Mind – So you don’t understand your wife’s job, hobby, or fascination, it doesn’t matter if you don’t! Whenever she is feeling depressed, as a result of disappointments, insecurities, or fears, you should always be there to reassure and encourage her. You are the person she trusts to give her strength and confidence.

11. Help Needed – For God’s sake, your wife is not a robot! She gets tired too, you know? So what if she’s a stay-at-home wife or mom, and you bring the bacon home, she does her share of the work and contributes to the relationship? She helps you by not splurging on pointless expenses, budgets for your house, and if she’s the type, she cleans up after you. Of course, help her with her work and / or chores. If you really can’t, find a way to make your job easier, and if you can, more enjoyable.

12. Make her laugh: You work on your jokes and make the office people and your boss laugh, you should also make it a habit to make your wife laugh. Find out asap what she finds funny and make her laugh whenever you can. When my husband and I fight, and he’s tired of my complaints, all he does is say something funny, that I can’t resist laughing and I forget about the fight and the problems.

13. Be intense and intimate – need I say more? Whatever works for you and your wife, let it flow and show her how passionate you are to make her happy.

14. Support her: whatever she does, be her friend and support her. If she can’t, find a way to emphasize how supportive she is and that she can count on your help, and you are the person who will support her no matter what.

15. Thank her: You can never thank her enough, and if she’s tired of hearing you say thank you, she doesn’t want to be like a broken record that keeps playing, you may want to find ways to thank her, without saying those simple words. Rewards, vacations, and gifts or tokens of appreciation should be enough.

A Wife’s Secret Wish List: Part 2 – Fun Stuff

1. Pleasant surprises – Surprise your wife from time to time. Sometimes it just costs you your time, sometimes it really costs you, but hey, it’s your wife we’re talking about. Surprise her!

2. Regular baths and a good cologne – You don’t want your wife to think then complain about how bad she smells, take a shower and groom herself, this habit works wonders for a marriage.

3. Splurge – “Expensive” is relative, if your finances only allow you to take her to a 3-star restaurant on your anniversary, by all means ask for the house special and a bottle of not-so-cheap wine. When you do take her shopping, make sure you have enough credit or even cash to buy her what she really wants, like that pair of sexy red stilettos, rather than trying to convince her that brown flats complement her feet and her big legs more.

4. Make her feel sexy: Despite childbirth, work and housework, you should find something in her that makes her sexy, if you really can’t, work on it and break your brain if necessary. Tell her what you think is sexy about her. Also, the red lace lingerie you saw in the window should do the job for you, if you don’t like telling your wife how sexy you are.

5. Congratulate her in front of her friends: This trick is quite old, but it is still very effective. When you ask your friend and your wife to join you for dinner, be honest about how pretty you are in that sundress, how good your wife has cooked, and how smart you think you are to get a good bargain at. the dishes.

6. Kiss her on the lips: brush your teeth regularly, especially before you intend to. She never gets tired of kissing, so don’t jump on her and do your thing, kiss her!

7. Make her feel wanted and desired. I will leave this part to your imagination and your personal preferences. My point is that a husband must make sure that his wife feels wanted and desired.

8. Be adventurous: explore things you haven’t done before, go places that you and your wife have always thought about but haven’t been before. The element of surprise and emotion should always be present in any marriage.

9. Write her love letters: You can be serious or funny and playful, it doesn’t matter, as long as you are spontaneous and sincere. Go ahead, put your thoughts in writing and let her read about how much you love her.

10. And last but not least, Remember! – Remember the dates of very special occasions such as your birthday, your anniversary, the first time you met, the first time you kissed, the day you proposed, remember these dates, memories and circumstances, and do something special or prepare something cute and sweet for your wife while you and your wife remember.