What to do when you find signs that he is cheating on you

You have noticed signs that he is cheating on you. What are you going to do now? Let’s look at the smartest potential moves you can make in response to signals that he’s playing. The best possible reaction may not be what you think.

So, you have reason to doubt him. He is undoubtedly annoying you, frustrating you, and causing you great distress. You may be tempted to confront him about your concerns right away. You may want to tell him about the signs of cheating and how worried and torn you are on the inside. If you’re relatively sure he’s been betraying you, there’s a good chance he might even want to do something on a larger scale. You could separate, move on, try to get even, or (if you’re married) move toward divorce. Those feelings are completely understandable.

However, acting on those temptations is the wrong way. Completely wrong.

First, consider what you might be doing if you’re wrong. There is a chance that you have misinterpreted innocent events as signs that he is cheating on you. You don’t want to falsely accuse him or throw away a very salvageable and potentially wonderful relationship if you’re wrong!

Second, if you’re cheating, you need more than a few hints and clues to justify your actions. You need solid proof. Not only do you deserve the truth as a matter of principle, but it will also give you a sense of closure and reassurance. If you are married, having actual proof of his infidelity can be invaluable if you need to move towards a divorce.

So what should you do when faced with signs that your boyfriend or husband has been cheating on you? You need to collect and collect solid evidence of your behavior. You have to be 100% sure of what has happened and be able to prove it.

I want to remind you that there is nothing worse than a cheater. Nothing. Cheating is the ultimate act of betrayal and no one deserves to be the victim of a cheater. If your boyfriend or spouse has acted inappropriately, you deserve nothing less than to know the absolute truth about what happened. Do the right thing and discover that truth.