The secret of good sex for men

It’s no secret, like just about every other man in the world, ever since I was old enough, sex has consumed my mind. At the time I wasn’t old enough to understand the difference between good sex, good sex, bad sex, great sex… Sex was sex. And then the sex was mostly internet porn, which at the time was not as developed as it is now. This was back in the days of dial-up, when you “surfed the web” with a free trial of AOL, Compuserve, or Prodigy. I guess at the time, modems weren’t fast enough to watch video like you can see today. A picture said more than a thousand words. The only videos were on tapes that some friend would have found in his parents’ secret stash in the closet. VHS tapes, not DVDs…

I guess at the time, I just assumed that all sex was the sex of a big porn star. With the size and stamina of porn star boys, and all the girls would take it as porn star girls. After all, porn was basically my manual, a guide that showed me the birds and the bees up close (an analogy I still don’t understand). Tips on how to give her good sex.

But that was then and this is now. I’m no longer a virgin, and I understand the difference between different levels of sex, from bad to GREAT! And reality set in as far as my sexual performance compared to porn star sex. But in the beginning, even bad sex was sex, so that was great. How to give her good sex wasn’t that important. He wasn’t even that interested in sex tips. It wasn’t until later that I really learned the difference, and now that I’m older, I really care about having great romps in the bag instead of a mediocre sprint.

My goals have changed, and I realized how much better Great Sex is compared to bad sex, or even good sex. And don’t get me wrong, that’s okay, sex isn’t bad, and probably has the highest frequency, but still, when the time comes and the kids (the forget-me-nots of a hopefully cool spin through the sheets because having kids because a 2 minute quickie is a shame) they are at grandma’s house; that’s the time for BIG sex. A night with my wife, a nice dinner, a couple of drinks, a few games of pool, a little dancing and to top it off with there’s no one to wake up, I’m going to make you scream for your life, position after position, I wish I had this moment of glory on video that, if it were anything else, you’d tell the kids when they grew up.

Well, I also found out the hard way that that wasn’t as easy as it sounds either. Even when the kids aren’t around and you can do whatever you want, it doesn’t always go as planned. You are tired from a long day at work, as you get older your sexual desire is not as intense as before and you do not have sex every day (sometimes several times a day) as in the honeymoon years, your stamina may have decreased a little. little of what it once was.

I’ve already been through that. But I have also stumbled upon another secret that women have been keeping from us; Kegel exercises for men. Yes, men can do it too. Just like keeping your other muscles fit, you can keep your sexual muscles (PC muscles) fit through Kegel exercises. You can do them like women do, by squeezing the muscles of your Mancha (it’s not your balls, it’s not your butt), holding and releasing. Or I’ve also found a game that allows you to do Kegel exercises like a man should, with weights.

But however you decide to do the exercises, take this secret and run with it. Do it for your pre-teen self who was “surfing the web” with dreams of a big porn star. Go for the porn star handbook you used as a guide to give advice. Do it for yourself, here and now. You spend your life living for your family, take this one and do it for yourself. And I’m sure her wife will be more than happy to have her heart racing and her juices flowing. Because that other secret. Women love sex, too, but not the minute in-and-out that precedes my nap. Great, I’m going to make you cum twice for sex (but that’s an article for another time). It is a win-win situation. Enjoy!!